y oh y cant things just be left alone??

well today i just found out that my ex-boyfriend has gotten in touch with my aunt...a week ago today...
Apparently he said to her that even though me and him are not going out any more he still wants to keep in touch with the family and see everyone...
he has no resect for what i want!! how dare he call her up and say that he wants to still be involved with my family minus me!! omg he is such an asshole...i am so mad, beyond belief...he has no consideration for how i might feel. he's just going to go ahead and do what ever he wants with whatever motives he has regradless of how anyone else feels....UGHHH!
you see....i was the one that broke up with him and so if he thinks that this is going to help him get over me in any way....he's got something else coming to him....all he's doing is hurting himself even more...involving himself with my family and seeing them and keeping in touch with them is the last thing that is going to help him to get over me and the fact that we are no longer together...
i know that when i broke up with him it hurt him badly...and so i dont know what this little plan of his is.... is it that he wants to stick around to try to make me feel bad and try to make me see what im missing without him? or is it that he's trying to cause disharmony between me and my family and have them make me feel bad for breaking up with him because he's supposedly such a "good kid"?
i dont know.....i dont know what to think about this whole thing....all i know is that im furious because of how selfish he's being....and how all he's doing is making things a whole hell of alot clearer as to why i don't want to be with someone like him and why i broke up with him in the first place.....